Friday, August 29, 2014

BOOK REVIEW: CALL THE MIDWIFE

Last month, we kicked off a new feature we are pretty jazzed up about over here at You Me Oui- the monthly Book Club. For August- we read Call the Midwife by Jennifer Worth. Carly had been pretty excited to read the book since having seen the PBS show, so we jumped on the bandwagon, and read it too!

WARNING: post may contain spoiler alerts!!! Read ahead with caution!!! You have been warned!

What was you favorite part or parts of the book?

CARLY: Having recently read Life After Life, I feel like this gives an additional more historical perspective into what it was like to live in London during and after the World Wars. We so often have an awareness of the American perspective, it's interesting to hear from a first world country that was directly bombed and impacted during that same time.

SINA:  
I love to read and learn about history, and knowing that this is her her real life story  (or at least mostly true to it) makes it that much more fun to read. I love knowing more about the time period, and the struggles that people in different parts (and times periods) of the world had to go through- I find it so interesting!

What was your least favorite part or parts of the book?

C:
I would have to agree with Sina on this one. Having watched the show, thankfully they aren't quite as graphic on screen as they are in the book, and I suppose it's useful and interesting information, but a bit gross at times.

S:  
I don't know if I would necessarily say this my least favorite part of the book, but I think that general in-depth details that she goes in to in some of the "scenes" can get to be a lot...

Who was your favorite character?

C:
It is uncanny to me how much the main character reminds me of a British friend I have from grad school. The girl who plays Jenny in the show looks a lot like her as well, so it's possible that primed me to see even more similarities while reading the book. I feel like she offers an alternative type of woman for that time, as she's not married and very independent. It's refreshing.

S:  Hmm... This one is a toss up... I like Sister Monica Joan- she is so light hearted and fun and just loves cake! I also really like Chummy Noakes- she is so honest and wonderful. I LOVE that she is a 6'2 warm-hearted woman who decided to devote her life to midwifery and missionary work.

Who was your least favorite character?

C:
I didn't really have a least favorite character. Chummy is very likeable but I have to admit, particularly in print reading her "posh-isms" was a little bit more annoying. All the "what hos" and "jolly goods".

S: 
This is a difficult book to have a least favorite character in- but I think that a lot of the men in general rub me the wrong way because of their lack of involvement in the whole family life and birthing process. Like she said at one point- their part is done after they plant their seed. That being said, it is the time period, and I understand that, it is just difficult to fathom that mind set sometimes- I'm glad we've moved past that for the most part.

What are your thoughts on the characters as a whole?

C:
Again I'd have to agree with Sina on this one. It's amazing the type of independence these ladies embraced during a time when settling down and creating a family unit was what women were supposed to aspire to. Biking through London in the middle of the night on their own - bold!

S: 
 I like how strong they are and how they are the type of people who do not take crap from anyone! I think it is refreshing reading a book with a lot of very strong independent women in it. And knowing that it is based on real life- I would love to meet these women!
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What surprised you most about the book?

C: Again I'd have to go back to the independence these women had, and the respect that they were given.

S:  I think the entire story- how poor these people were and yet still kept having kids, how "heroic" the midwives were and how they were held with such high esteem. I also think that so many people would give up everything to be a midwife is pretty crazy- I don't know if I could do it.

Was there anything else that you found particularly unexpected?

C: I found it remarkable the way that the "rougher" crowd treated the midwives with the highest level of respect. I wouldn't find it surprising for the nuns to be respected because they are members of a religious order, but for the midwives not associated with the convent to garner that same level of respect was pretty amazing.

S:  That nuns were (/are?) midwives!

Did you like how the book was written?

C: I liked how the stories could each stand on their own, but some of the information learned carried from one story to the next. I also liked the way she wove in historical explanations and descriptions of what things were like in London and England as a whole, which gave more context to her individual experiences.

S:  I felt like she was telling me a very very detailed story. It was nice. Different. Like I said before, it got to be a lot at some points, but I liked the story, so that saved it.

Was there any particular part of the book that really stood out to you?

C: For me what stood out the most was the incredibly slow change that that part of London went through. I'm sure it's similar to how things are now, but things advanced much more quickly so it was easier to see the extreme change in conditions. I mean, when she talks about having one "bathroom" in the courtyard or per floor, when other people at the same time were getting running water and having bathrooms in their flats it just blew my mind.

S: 
Nothing too crazy stood out, other than just how much things have changes in the last 60 years. From the family side of things, to how far women have come, to the technological side of things- it really puts things in perspective, and (not to be sappy) it makes you happy for what you have now. We could be a lot worse off.

What did you all think of the book? Do you have any answers to these questions, or have any questions of your own? Let's start a dialogue!!!

Please comment! We would LOVE to start a discussion!!!

Also, we will be announcing the book for September on Tuesday next week (since Monday is a Holiday). Stay Tuned!!!


Thursday, August 28, 2014

CABIN PREP TIPS

Hey y'all,

I don't know about you, but this weekend is pretty much my last relaxing cabin weekend for the summer, and I plan on going out with a bang. I know at the beginning of the summer I shared a list of summertime essentials. Now I'm going to give you the list of what you need to make your final cabin weekend perfect!



Everyone needs a great pair of shoes for the water. Shoes that they absolutely don't care about wrecking, breaking, damaging or losing. Luckily, Old Navy has just the disposable shoe for the job. And because it's the end of the summer, they're on sale. Get two!



Looking for a comfy seat out on the water? Well this is the perfect balance of submersion and flotation. And it has cup holders. Trust me, it's a game changer. If that doesn't work for you, wearing a life jacket like a diaper always works too.



Even when the sun isn't quite as intense at the end of the summer, you will still definitely get burned if you aren't careful. So better get that sunscreen out. I like to use the Hawaiian Tropics stuff, because that way even if I'm just at a little lake in northern Minnesota, I still get to feel like I'm on some fancy foreign beach. 




Now, while you're at Target, you might as well grab a cheap pair of shades. If you'll be floating around a lake like me, you don't want to risk losing a pair that you actually care about to the murky depths. 



And then of course you'll need something to read during all that relaxation. When you aren't playing games with friends or taking naps, a nice light bit of reading material does the trick. The latest issue of People magazine is all you need, and is a great thing to have on hand for pretty much anyone to enjoy leafing through. 



But of course for those of you who are reading along with our book club picks, you may still be working on this month's selection (as I am) Call the Midwife. Manageable and relatively light vacation read, making you glad you're sitting lakeside and not giving birth in the 1950's slums of London

 Anything essential that I've forgotten? What are your must haves for a weekend away?

Wednesday, August 27, 2014

I'M ON THE DIP- DYET

Man, I am SOOO punny sometimes, I crack myself up! Anyways- you may remember seeing in this post a few weeks back- I cannot seem to get over DIY projects that are dipped AND dyed...

Since coming across all of these DIY's I have been Ã¼ber  inspired to try it out. So... as I am sure you have guessed, here it goes! (I think that is the shortest intro I have ever written- you can tell I must be excited!)

SUPPLIES:
- cotton napkins (we used these)
- dye
- warm water
- bucket
- stirring device

INSTRUCTIONS:
1: Mix your dye according to the packages instructions. We used these dyes, so the instructions told us that we  should dissolve the dye in the water first, and then added that "dye mixture" to approximately 3 gallons of water- so we did just that.
NOTE: You will want to use a bucket you do not mind if it gets stained or dirty. We used junky old buckets we normally use for hauling yard scraps- we rinsed them out well of course...!

2: Stir it up really well- make sure all of the "dye mixture" is mixed in to the water.

3: Once you have mixed up your colors really well, and let the waters settle down a little bit (you do not want to dye in the midst of large waves!)- you dye away!

How you decide to dye them is up to you, and depending on the look you want, you will dye them differently- Carly was going for more of an ombre look with a hard edge- so she slowly pulled hers out of the dye, while I wanted a more organic look, so I winged each one! 
Carly went with a deep red color
while I went with a dark navy/indigo color 

4: You will want to find a way to lay them out while you are still dying- that way you can still have fun with your other napkins! Carly used a plastic garbage bag to lay hers out, while I just laid mine against the side of the bucket- that way the extra dye could drip off... User preference I suppose.

OF COURSE my puppy wanted to get in on the fun too! It's a family fun activity!
what a proper little gentleman... eee!

5: Once you have finished all of your napkins (or whatever you decided to dye), rinse off any excess dye. Because we were doing our project outside, we just used the garden hose, but you could use the sink too. You will want to rinse them until the water runs clear.

I noticed that after I had brought mine in, that there was still a little excess color left in them- so I rinsed them in the sink. BE WARNED- it can stain- so be prepared to have bleach or some soap handy to wash your sink right away.

6: After you are all rinsed and clean- let dry. I laid mine on some plastic garbage bags, just in case I missed some dye. YOU CAN NEVER BE TOO CAREFUL!

7: The final step in this process is to wash these in the washer (I did not take any pictures of this, sorry, felt like it was pretty self explanatory). Wash on warm, by themselves, again, in case of any excess dye.
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What crafts are you up to lately?

Has anything inspired you to start creating?

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

PAPER CRAFT SERIES: PAPER WALL HANGING


Ok, so I didn't really know what to call this one, because it's difficult to describe. You could hang it pretty much anywhere you want, over a window or door, or just on a wall somewhere. It's the simplest of the art crafts that we did a few weeks ago, but still looks great. As usual, first I'll give you the pin that it came from:

This one was also not completed by me, but I received permission to document it and share it with y'all. It's possibly the simplest, and the easiest for those of you who love symmetry. First, she cut out all of the triangles, making sure to have relatively even numbers of each color.
Colorful triangles!
Stretch out the yarn or string of your choice, and stabilize it at either end with some masking tape. Then start spreading out your triangles and testing the spacing.
The Layout!
Spacing is key
 As they get laid out, variety is key, and it's best to spread out the different colors as much as possible.  Then use some Scotch tape to tape them to the string. It won't be visible, especially from a distance.
Diversify!
A few finished strands
 Once you finish the strands, they can be tied to or wrapped around a dowel or a curtain rod, and hung wherever you like!
The finished strands!
What do you think of our finished product?? 

Monday, August 25, 2014

ARTIST WATCH: CLARE ELSAESSER

Clare Elsaesser has been on my watch list forever! I have a serious Etsy crush on this gal (if you don't know what that is, you obviously have not been spending enough time on Etsy and Pinterest), and I needed to share her with all of you to pass on the love.

She is a pretty cool lady, that like some of the other ladies (Elizabeth Mayville) that I have mentioned before, she features only women- and really only the backs on their heads, which kind of helps puts you in each of the pieces of her works.

Anyways, I love her works- check them out!
What do you think of her works?

Do you like that you cannot see the ladies faces?

Are there any artist you are watching lately? LET US KNOW!!!

Friday, August 22, 2014

FUN FRIDAY FINDS

Some fun stuff from around the interwebs to entertain you this lovely Friday:

Apparently everyone has been watching the video of this kid, and apparently it's pretty funny. Even if you've already seen it a million times, treat yourself today.

In keeping with the theme of chubby little boys who are just too cute to handle, this kid has a future as a weatherman for sure. I'd actually watch the local weather if he was my weather kid. I know this video is a couple years old, but it withstands the test of time.
Elsewhere on the web, this commercial exists. I've watched it repeatedly and I can't get enough of it. I can never pick a favorite part. Maybe because they are all the best. 
And although it's slightly unrelated, but another gem that I was introduced to recently on the internet is a delicious and delightful Tumblr page of Maury gifs and quotes. 
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